In search of a dom/ daddy!

I'm 37, cute curvy and full figured. I'm not a tiny girl. I'm the opposite. I'm mature, have kids. I'm sub. I mostly like being told what to do. Teased. Hmm. A lot of what I enjoy is the mental stimulation I suppose. I love giving & receiving head.I have never had rear entry sex, but using toys & playing with my ass is what sets me over the edge. Wearing a plug, for example. It's a huge turn on to me. I like if you have me masturbate & touch myself while following your instructions.I'm not into anything very painful. Have never really tried bondage. I'm open to maybe light bondage. I recently tried nipple clamps & have a pair that I love. They feel so good when I put them on. For some reason wearing a collar is something that makes me feel like I'myours, it ofc makes me very obedient. I would also love to have another lady join us. I need someone who is not very strict, but will push my limits when the time is right. One of my favorite things is when I'm told to say "yes, father figure" & am corrected if I don't.& of course there has to be an attraction there or spark to make me want to submit. Someone who makes me want them, & always want more. He needs to be able to make me slick, even over the phone. I don't want any younger guy guys, & prefer everyone be around my age or seasoned.